Blink: The Power of Thinking without Thinking

Blink: The Power of Thinking without Thinking

While I travel, I read books so I can do something during idle times.. I read most of my books on bus/train/plain rides or at coffee shop if it happens to not have WIFI.

Blink is my latest read.. to be honest I never had the chance to complete reading the book and I have to give it away coz I need to make space for my limited luggage.. in exchange for a pack of coffee a friend gave me in Vietnam.. I know. I need to make priorities.

I have captured some snippets of the book though:

“We live in a world that assures that the quality of a decision is directly related to the time and effort that went into making it”

“Don’t judge a book by its cover. We believe that we are always better off gathering as much information as possible and spending as much time as possible in deliberation. We really only trust conscious decision making.

But there are moments, particularly in times of stress, when haste does not make waste, when our snap judgement and first impressions can offer a much better means of making sense of the world”

“Blink is not just a celebration of the power of the glance, however, I’m also interested in those moments when our instincts betray us”

“If the surgeons voice was judged to sound dominant, the surgeon tended to bein the sued group. If the voice sounded less dominant and more concerned, the surgeon tended to be in the non-sued group”

A person who is six feet tall but otherwise identical to someone who is five foot five will make an average of $5,525 more per year. Have you ever wondered why so many mediocare people find their way into positions of authority in companies and organizations? It’s because when it comes to even the most important positions, our selection decisions are a good deal less rational than we think. We see a tall person and we swoon”

“Prejudging is the kiss of death. I have a farmer I deal with, who I’ve sold all kinds of cars over the years. We seal one deal with a handshake, and he hands me a hundred dollar bill and says, ‘Bring it out to my farm’.. Now if you saw this man, with his coveralls and his cow-dung, you’d figure he was not a worthy customer. But in fact, as we say, he is all cashed up”

“Your brain has a part (left) that thinks in words, and a part (right) that thinks in pictures, and what happened when you described the face in words was that your actual visual memory was displaced. When it comes to faces, we are an awful lot better at visual recognition than we are at verbal description”

 

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I still have reservations on doing things without thinking.. Although sometimes I do it effortlessly xD.. But I guess everything depends on the situation.. I just wanted to highlight sentences that many people can relate.. Plus the mention that taller people receives much more higher salary than smaller ones.. tsk.. that’s why I’m grateful Internet and online work is invented  :D



 

Book Review: Inferno by Dan Brown

Book Review: Inferno by Dan Brown

I’ve been reading lots of comments on facebook describing Manila as Gates of Hell in the latest book of Dan Brown called Inferno. Here’s some comments from brave souls:

Marky of www.nomadicexperiences.com says:

“Last year I went to a place called “Isla Puting Bato”. It’s the worst slum I’ve ever been to. The “Gates to Hell” aren’t the sprawling malls and towering condos we prefer to see. Rather, its the maddening dark alleys that leads nowhere. Its a place where people live like they’ve been condemned already. Dan Brown nails it and why do we get flustered by this unfortunate and sad fact?”

Missy Penaverde of http://www.soleofmissy.com/ says:

“She expects the Philippines to be a “wonderland of geological beauty, with vibrant seabeds and dazzling plains.”But after setting foot in Manila, Brooks gapes in “horror” as she has “never seen poverty on this scale,” slamming Manila’s “six-hour traffic jams, suffocating pollution, horrifying sex trade.”… “Manila is the gates of Hell.”

So this is the reason why the Filipino community is in uproar? Lol! We better stop acting like a bunch of hypocrites. Let’s take this as a challenge to make our place a better place. I OUGHT TO HAVE A COPY OF THIS BOOK NEXT WEEK! :D”

 

On proper news, here’s a glimpsed of the story, according to an authority news site , Guardian:

“Sienna, a character in the book, is overcome by the city’s destitution, filth and child prostitution – and is later raped in one of its many slums. Depicting Manila, a sprawling city of 13 million, as a city of “six-hour traffic jams, suffocating pollution [and] horrifying sex trade”, Sienna tells readers she has “run through the gates of hell”.

Manila may be a city where extreme wealth and poverty regularly rub shoulders — roughly 43% of its 13 million inhabitants live in shanties – but Filipino officials do not appreciate having their city publicly panned.”

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I used to give my personal opinion about the books that I’ve read but I’m holding this since I still have to read the book. Besides I think you already know my thoughts about the big city if you’re reading my past blog articles.

So if you still want to read the book, go ahead. You can buy it here:



If you’re Filipino and feel outraged, well I guess its a wake up call to go out.. i mean not only in the malls and tourists spots xD

Get out and see the whooping 43% who lives in shanties! And discern whether the book is really fiction.. Then lets all together make changes necessary to uplift our society… and once that’s done, let’s reread the book again to make sure it will just stay as a fiction.

 

Books to read while you travel

Books to read while you travel

Since my first long journey out of the country last 2008, I have read the thickest books that I never thought I could finish.. Living in unfamiliar places is great if you’re on the “honeymoon” phase of settling, but the adaptation process sometimes can drive you nuts.. example, super spicy food on a 45 degree heat is okay to experience temporarily, but when you have to endure it for long months… is not fun. (I still love you Mother India)

So travel and reading books are my temporary escape since I’m not into movies or tv.

I read on the bus station, on the train, or just to get myself to sleep. And some of them I read twice already… not because there is an exam, but there’s a thug in the heart string most probably because it is associated with reality.

Read my top favorite books and feel the thug too.


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1. Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. This book, by far, tops my all time favorite books to read. It’s about a traveler who used to be a seminarian but chose to be a shepherd for the love of travel… he’s an educated shepherd and reads books while tending his sheep.. If the setting is in the Philippines, or anywhere in Asia, he would be a sosyal na farmer…


2. A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini. Set in Afghanistan, this is a story of Mariam, married at 15 years old to bitter and troubled Rasheed who is 30 years her senior. You think it’s fiction? It’s still happening.


3. Like a flowing River by Paulo Coelho. Like a flowing river is a compilation of short stories by Paulo Coelho. Short stories for short attention spans are great :D… Seriously, it really is a great read.


4. How to turn thoughts into things by Bo Sanchez. I’ve read the book a couple of times already.. repeatedly.. so I can memorize the message and brainwash myself so I can turn my thoughts into things. :D


5. Life of Pi. The story revolves around Piscine Patel and a tiger named Richard Parker.. while trapped in the great Pacific Ocean for 227 days… The survival tips strikes me most, who knows it can be useful just in case I found myself trapped in the ocean too :D


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So those are my all time favorite books to read folks.. I’m sure there will be part 2 because I keep on reading ;D.. So far, here are the list of books I have read and blogged. How about you? Any recommended books to read? ^_^

Book Review: Changing Gears: A Family Odyssey to the End of the World

Book Review: Changing Gears: A Family Odyssey to the End of the World

I am currently reading this book by Nancy Sathre-Vogel



 

They are a family composed of husband, wife and 2 kids who traveled with their bikes. It’s kinda awesome that very few people do this.. and fewer families that travels on a bike too! This then makes them special..

I’m actually stalking facebook pages and blogs of families who travel because in the future, I might graduate from traveling solo and may get a companion during travels too… like my niece or nephew or mom..

It’s so inspiring that Nancy was once a Peace Corps volunteer.. so I can relate since I was once an international volunteer too. And during their travels, they also met many Road Angels… and I meet them too.. there are actually lots of these angels disguise as humans.. and sometimes i disguise myself as human too ;)

 

 

Some excerpts that struck me are the following..

 

“We never knew when Road Angels would enter our lives, and we were so very grateful for Vic
and his ice-cold Cokes.”

“The next day we received yet another email from the friend whose house we were headed for. “As you know, I work at a hotel. I’ve talked with the manager of the hotel and she’s offered to put you guys up as long as you need in order to have shelter during the upcoming storm. Would you like
me to reserve a room for you?” America’s Road Angels had done it again!”
“It could have been a horrible night, but it wasn’t; it was delightful instead. Somehow, call it a God-moment or serendipity, but help came just when we needed it. We had been on the road for six months now and had met more Road Angels than I ever dreamed existed, yet we were still humbled
and honored by each and every act of kindness they extended.”

“Suddenly it dawned on me how that pace used to be normal. I used to race into stores to quickly grab what I needed before hurrying back to my car to race to my next stop. I ran from one meeting to the next, hurriedly filling out stacks of paperwork in between them all. Drop the kids off at school, fight the morning traffic getting to work, sprint to the bathroom between classes, ferry the kids to soccer practice. It seemed like it never ended. That was just how life was.”

“On our journey I had grown accustomed to a slower pace of life. I had gotten used to taking time to smell the roses and tell my boys how much I loved them. Even when we were battling headwinds or climbing hills that never seemed to end, time was on our side. I had come to the point where I was taking that for granted. I couldn’t help but wonder how society would change if humankind could just have time, if we weren’t so busy hustling and bustling from one activity to the next. What would happen if all of us decided that time with our family was a bit higher on the priority list? I think the world would be a different place.”

“It was always such a treat to see Davy and Daryl jump right in with other kids. They didn’t care what color their skin was or what language they spoke. What god they worshipped or what currency they spent made no difference whatsoever. The boys were able to strip away all those wrappers
and see the people for who they were. And they accepted each one as
an equal and a friend.”

 

Inspired yet? You can also be inspired and view more of their stories at www.familyonbikes.org

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And if you are a US resident.. here’s more inspiration:
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What would you do if you were not afraid?
Changing Gears is the true story of one woman asking herself that very question. What followed was a family journey of epic proportions – a journey of physical challenge, emotional endurance, teamwork, perseverance, and tremendous learning opportunities. It was a discovery of self, of priorities, of accepting hardships, of appreciating blessings, and of contrasting a comfortable past life with the extreme hardship and poverty of those they met.
Would the journey be a dream come true – or a mother’s worst nightmare? Find out in Nancy Vogel’s newest book, Changing Gears: A Family Odyssey to the End of he World available now!
Please visit Family on Bikes for more information.

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In celebration of the release of Changing Gears, Nancy, with the help of a few of her favorite sponsors, is holding a giveaway of the following prizes:
Disclosure: [grasya.com] is not responsible for sponsor prize shipment. This event was organized by Victoria at Drive Me Crazy Family Adventure on behalf of the author, Nancy Vogel, Family on Bikes.

 

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Book Review: Go Negosyo

Book Review: Go Negosyo

One of my dreams is to be a social entrepreneur. I want to have a business that does not only make profits but also help improve the society as a whole.I do want to have a coffee shop but I think its not the right time for me to establish it at the moment.

However, this book will serve as my inspiration once I start having that brick and mortar business again. It’s a compilation of great entrepreneurs in the Philippines, here are the snippets of wisdom I got from the book and sharing it with you. Hope you get some wisdom too.

1. Things are being done by the entrepreneurial spirit because one loves to do it. Money is just a natural consequence.

2. The spirit lives in a discovered person who does not necessarily have a high IQ. But the discovered person shows high EQ and high adversity quotient.

3. High emotional quotient is fundamental to creating positive results from relationships wit others and the self.

4. High adversity quotient allows the entrepreneurial spirit to deal with failure and negative results

5. Build your enterprise around your passion. See if your passion has a market. Alternatively, check if fulfilling habits of customers who pay is your passion.

6. You should go for partners who will watch out for you, will look out for your interests. Partners you can trust, not just with your business, but with your life.

7. Social entrepreneurs create an enterprise that not only does well, but also does good.

8. Every businessperson has his own strengths, and for me, people say that I listen a lot. For others, they may not consider it as strength, but for me, I realized how I learn so many things just by listening to the thoughts, ideas and feelings of other people – Tony Tan Caktiong of Jollibee

9. Fairness or win-win situations are trademarks of a real entrepreneurial mind

10. He also had a dream beyond the bottom line. He wanted something local that wasnt just like local. He wanted local to butt heads with the best in the world – Ben Chan of Bench

11. Not that Larry or his daughter, Lorna are bad managers, more that they rely far more on your gut feel, common sense and relationships than complex theories of strategy, marketing and finance

12. The two story house with a floor area of 55 square meters costs only about 150,000 pesos to build. Similar structure made of cement and steel would cost twice the amount. Diaz is hoping that his idea of houses made of recycled natural materials will be the future of housing in the country – Illa Diaz, Director My Shelter Foundation

13. A businessman can be both profitable and have a positive impact on people (social entrepreneurship)

14. Instead of saying no, ask yourself why not?

15. Make honey from life’s sourest lemons.

16. Partners who no longer have passion for the enterprise are not worth partnering with.

17. Partners who join purely for financial returns are financiers not partners

18. The resources need not be money. Time and passionate people is a more important resource

19. I chose to live my life unafraid even during times when I was afraid. I discovered that opportunities don’t find you, you find them.

20. Have a mentor. Mentors share themselves without fear, for what they share would have become obsolete but the next day. They make themselves obsolete everyday.