It took me weeks to update the content of this website… because i want to show the beautiful side of life in a way that no one will get jealous if I show pretty pics, or at least no one will borrow money.
But after reading this, and you still feel envy, contact me and I’ll personally tell you all the horror stories that I’ve collected. Who knows I might convert the envy to fright and you might not want to travel already : )))))
But for now, let’s focus on life’s beautiful moments.
I do travel in a different way so please don’t categorize me in any of the social class ladder. I blend or adjust depending on different situations.
As I’ve said previously in old travel stories, I travel solo but I meet people along the way so I’m not really solo travelling all the time.
It’s nice to meet people who have a different culture or point of view other than yours. There’s beauty in diversity. And it’s nice to break other people’s negative mindset sometimes. Here are some highlights of my trip. Hope you enjoyed reading and get a lesson or two.
1. During gatherings of friends new and old, I usually pay for lunch or dinner of everyone. Then I see their upset faces.. I don’t know if this is the norm or not. But I’m really happy to pay. If I’m with fellow Filipinos, they will usually be happy that I’m paying. But the behavior changes when I’m with other nationalities… I may not look rich but at least, don’t treat me poor and always be on the side of receiving.. don’t spoil me and give me everything for free, because instead of being glad to receive blessings, it makes me feel guilty and tend to give back.
So I continue to treat them despite my friends showing signs of being upset and probably concerned about me that I may loose money due to traveling, I love these people, they are my human treasures.
2. I’m not shy to say I cook, clean dishes, or tend the garden of my hosts because I love to do this. I buy their groceries out of my pocket too.
Our foreign visitors to the PH do this favor too, they cook dishes that represents their countries and my niece and nephews gets to have a global education.
I don’t want to be just a visitor. I want to be a temporary family member.
3. During travels, I met interesting people that are totally on the other side of my point of view. I met people who are pro-climate change, saying that trees needs more C02 so we need to produce more carbon. And that weather changes are causes by government, example, HAARP.. Wars in the future will not use missiles or machine guns, wars are now in forms of weather changes. Scary thought from that American lady I met in Chiang Mai.. but who knows what the future holds.
4. I also met someone from Latvia, a tiny country in Europe, and he doesn’t like Syrians and refugees saying they are spending the resources of their host countries. But at least he gave me a probiotic mushroom, so I’m happy. He said some countries in Europe are very racist and they have this – Aryan supremacist mentality.. I said it’s ok –
I’m used to being discriminated anyway… but now that I have friends in these countries, I will feel safe in their bubble.. hopefully.. we’ll see what the future holds.
5. The long term travel is a bit short for me coz usually, my long term travel duration is 3 months. But I was still able to meet different people like from US and Latvia as mentioned previously; and I also met a family from China, overworked yuppies from India, a focolarina from Japan, Chiang Mai ambassador from Australia, tiny homes owner from UK, a travel company alpha female owner who has a British passport, a young backpacker from France who is looking for a purpose in life, Thai tourist from Macau, a long time friend whom I thought was from Nepal but has an Indian passport… of course wonderful locals, my human treasures from Thailand, Vietnam and Malaysia, some whom were my friends since 2004 and 2010. These are just some of the pics, some moments are just forever captured in my memory (as an excuse for forgetting to take a picture) ^_^
6. I met a monk who used to be a pilot. Now, he eats only once a day and live alone in the forest.It made me feel guity that we were eating a sumptious lunch and he just stayed in another table, unattached.
7. I met a few more who hated the Muslims…. but it’s very interesting to note that when I was stranded in Johor Bahru, Malaysia, while everyone was just staring, laughing and being entertained at my misfortunes, the one who rescued me was a Muslim family.. and we had a beautiful sharing about each others culture, and she told me that Muslim women are actually very important in their religion.. and to my surprise, this Muslim lady was actually driving the car while her husband and kid was in the backseat.. She later told me she is a financial expert and has different businesses… we might collaborate in the future.. she is very empowering indeed.
8. I wasn’t able to enter Singapore, but this should be told in another story. Of course I can’t say anything about that country coz I wasn’t able to visit in the first place. I went there before already so not really keen on traveling there again anyway. But I will have a contest to give away a chance to stay in a posh accommodation because well, I wasn’t able to go although I paid for this already, might as well give it away.
9. I was trying to do many things at the same time. Travel, working on different projects online that deserves another post, meeting people, shopping and getting lost, it actually took a toll on me and I got sick in my last few days in Malaysia. At the same time, my insecurities were at an all time high and I can’t help but compare myself to those backpackers who still looks posh despite messy hair, slippers, and just plain sleeveless shirt and short. I dress like that too, but instead, I feel more like an illegal immigrant maid. Maybe that’s the reason why I wasn’t able to enter SG? I was actually dressed decent that time, and was proud to tell the immigration officers I travelled to other countries already. Anyway, that’s another story and yes, I do deserve a hug, thank you.
10. Despite the last few days of my long term travel not ending well, I still wish more people can travel too so they can understand each other. What I see is that people go out of the country but they stay in their own bubble and meet people in their own class.. and then pick on other people not belonging in their own class.
It’s the same scenario anywhere. Rich vs Poor, Young vs Old, West vs Asians, White vs nonWhites, Christians vs Muslims, and vice versa.
Another challenge is inflation and war and other culture conflicts that makes it more difficult for people to move. Travel is still a privilege but if we find ways for everyone to travel and understand each other, this privilege will be erased. Besides, everyone deserves to enjoy this beautiful earth, it’s the only one we have until it’s time to leave it.